Can one destroy his/her own life? Yes they can. They do that when they stay in relationships they don’t value, remain passive towards negative changes that happen to them, or adopt destructive qualities that can ruin their lives. Here, I will tell you about some of these qualities you should change so you wouldn’t destroy your life.
1- Pessimism. It is a destructive quality that prevents you from moving forward and makes you attached to what you know only. Remember that nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2- Blaming it on fate, stars…etc. Fate is truly responsible for many of the things that happen in our lives, but it doesn’t decide them. So do not destroy your life by lying face down whenever lousy things happen because you think you are destined to be unhappy and harness your destiny instead.
3- adopting lazy solutions. Lazy or easy methods are a type of escapism. And by escapism you don’t learn anything new or try hard to do anything which diminishes your will power and self-esteem and increases your self-loathing by the time.
4- You lack orientation. You are living life just because you are alive. You don’t have a plan for your life. You haven’t set goals or even have any idea about why you are living your life.
5- You hate listening to or asking for advice. You try things yourself and might ruin them and make many mistakes in the process although you can save time and effort by asking for advice or listening to it.
6- You gossip. Gossiping is always the job of the idle. You don’t have anything to do, or have but don’t want to do it, so you fill your time by chatting about other people’s lives and business since you don’t like your own.